"Really?" I replied. "Interesting. I just wear it because I like it." The comment was nothing but an icebreaker as I went in for a tire. But there was one thing wrong with it. Chief Wahoo is not named after Crawford. He is simply a logo for the Cleveland baseball team, and I knew that. So why not correct him?
I would rather ask, why correct him? What purpose would it serve?
All right, in not correcting the guy I was patronizing him. Yet I don't see what's wrong with patronization in such a context. He was only making conversation, and I didn't see why I should stick a pin in that. When dealing with innocuous items like the exact nature of a baseball symbol, let him have his fun. There's no harm done.
Sure, I might kindly correct a friend or family member. But that's a little different; a new angle has been added. Why would I want to allow friends and family to be put in the potentially embarrassing situation of being called out by a stranger on an unimportant point? This guy was only my tire guy. I did not want to embarrass him, so I let it go without censure. It would likely never come up again in his conversations anyway.
In short, I see no evil in patronizing someone if the circumstances, I will say, merit it. There's no reason to be a know it all, and no reason to burst bubbles, when engaging in small talk with relative strangers. That's a worse sin so far as I'm concerned.
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